A dareberry for unhappy girls October 15, 2008

Accessory for your boyf’s schedule?

In the last few days i had the chance to go out more and this is where my “dareberry of the day” comes from – my latest bars experience

I noticed, sadly, that in many cases girls come with the guys in the bars as accessories. They come as a “package”, then you see them around out for a soccer game – the guys cheer madly when the ball gets in the net and the girls smile and seem happy, too – even though they actually don’t give a damn about the game. Then i noticed sad,  bored girls in “guys night out” type of thing…where the guys are there for the other guys actually, and the girls are there for what i call “show-off”, and then i wondered if the poor girls actually do something else with their time besides being beside him. Well, i doubt that, after all a day has only 24 hours!

So my dareberries for today are the following:

1. if you want to be happy, you have to learn to be happy on your own, to be the main character of your own schedule. If you are an accessory of his schedule when will you have time for yourself?

2. if you spend 24/7 of your time with him, he might take you for granted and actually get bored and find another – you should be a desert not the menu of the day…everyday!

3. listen to this and take it all from the begining enjoying the real YOU

Tight hugs!

A.