Drive safe, stay alive! November 7, 2008
Posted by armina in dareberry, thoughts, Uncategorized.Tags: car crash, drive safe, sadness, youth driving
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The dareberry of today is a bit connected to my fear of getting a driver’s license. I am almost 26 now and i love other means of transportation so much that i don’t feel like learning to drive a car. I am sure i can do it because every time i wanted something, i fought for it and i had it!
The issue is that i don’t feel like i want it. I know it’s useful, and since i will have a car in a few months it will be useful to have a driver’s license, but i don’t feel like it, so today i decided to stop torturing myself in putting me through the drivers’ school and enjoy the trains that i always loved.
In the same time, what triggered this post is a small video on safe driving and safe “car cruising” and so on. It’s horrible but very “impactfull” – smart guys…
So, here it is: Koenntest du damit leben?
Opened to changing everyday in every possible way… October 21, 2008
Posted by armina in dareberry, thoughts, Uncategorized.Tags: change, freedom, life, living the present
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…is the key to living happily the present!
Today, between 14.36 and 15.00 i lived some moments of great happiness and i just felt like writing about them, so here it is:
Today i decided to take the train from Bucharest to Pitesti and not the bus like i usually do. One of the reasons i decided this, is that for me, the train, is the second best place to be in, on this planet (other reasons are the plus of comfort and the price). The first best place is on the mountains, just breathing and wondering how can it be that the snow is so white and the sun so pure, and the third best place is in a green field of grass with crickets around you, admiring the stars with some red wine beside, or…during the day, watching the clouds moving on the sky .
About the present: what can be more beautiful than being in a fast train, sitting on the sunny side, listening to a great song and brainstorming names for your new business idea? What can express more freedom than this? Space and time just vanish, every blood vessel feels the speed and Sennheiser gives you a special sound quality for Cranberries’ songs. Endorphins are in the air 
Who says that life sucks?
Such a bad quote…
A dareberry for unhappy girls October 15, 2008
Posted by armina in dareberry.Tags: boyfriends, freedom of self, personality, unhappy girls
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Accessory for your boyf’s schedule?
In the last few days i had the chance to go out more and this is where my “dareberry of the day” comes from – my latest bars experience 
I noticed, sadly, that in many cases girls come with the guys in the bars as accessories. They come as a “package”, then you see them around out for a soccer game – the guys cheer madly when the ball gets in the net and the girls smile and seem happy, too – even though they actually don’t give a damn about the game. Then i noticed sad, bored girls in “guys night out” type of thing…where the guys are there for the other guys actually, and the girls are there for what i call “show-off”, and then i wondered if the poor girls actually do something else with their time besides being beside him. Well, i doubt that, after all a day has only 24 hours!
So my dareberries for today are the following:
1. if you want to be happy, you have to learn to be happy on your own, to be the main character of your own schedule. If you are an accessory of his schedule when will you have time for yourself?
2. if you spend 24/7 of your time with him, he might take you for granted and actually get bored and find another – you should be a desert not the menu of the day…everyday!
3. listen to this and take it all from the begining enjoying the real YOU 
Tight hugs!
A.
The dareberry of the day – Trust your senses! October 13, 2008
Posted by armina in dareberry.Tags: feelings, house of Bols, senses
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I was browsing through the photos i made in August while traveling through Europe and i discovered one that is in total agreement with what i feel lately:
Rational is good but is not enough. Trust your senses!
Feminine energy – The Girl Effect October 9, 2008
Posted by armina in dareberry.Tags: feminine energy, feminism, the girl effect, women's power
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A while ago i saw an interesting video on www.ted.com. The speech of Isabel Allende (a story teller). She speaks about how we could create an almost perfect world, if we would have more “feminine energy” used to improve our civilization. When i saw this video i realized how right she is.
Today i bumped into another video: The girl effect, that gives the solution for poverty and hunger in the developing countries. Guess what is the answer? “Feminine energy”!
“Feminine energy” is my dareberry for today!
Tight hugs,
A.
A place i love – www.lumebuna.ro October 3, 2008
Posted by armina in dareberry.Tags: free hugs, good news, lumebuna.ro, nice people, positive thoughts
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Yes, this is a place i am in love with lately:)
If you need an energy boost and want to “shut down” the tormenting bad news that are everywhere, if you want to believe there are still good people in this world but you need a proof to create some roots to these thoughts, if you want to see good causes that are fought for, this is the proof that they are all here: Lume Buna – the place where smiles, positive thoughts, free hugs and good deeds are the normal
Lume Buna- is my dareberry for today!
Respect!
